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Re: Judgements

Dear @Former-Member

 

it’s been quite upsetting for me to have these daily continual criticisms given to me. You have just lightened my load. 

I’m too overwhelmed to respond adequately but will one hour 

Re: Judgements

Hi @PeppiPatty 

and @@Boo13 @greenpea @Shaz51

 

Great suggestions

@Former-Member  lol  

I am so slow at responding to criticisms and very reticent to give them. 

It is being able to respond in the moment ... when they come.

 

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@Appleblossom Me too! I just smile and let them wash over me and try not to show that they hurt.

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I havent been able to respond like that ... yet ... will work on it. @greenpea Smiley Happy

Yesterday someone said a criticism and I calmly said ... its not like that ... was so proud of myself ... it did not upset any apple carts and shows I am getting quicker ..

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@PeppiPatty Take your time.

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Great suggestionsn @Former-Member Smiley Happy

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It is great suggestions aren’t they and I will use too 

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Reticent is the word I was nagging Mr Moody how to use it but he said I meant resistant 

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@Former-Member

Im reading your ideas phew 😅 why can’t I think of these ? 

The medication one is brilliant 💡🌸 and so is the cleaning one because I often go to someone’s home 🏠 and do dishes etc ....... 

thankyou so much ...... 

judgements are very fullon aren’t they @greenpea with children. My family are very judgemental with my son. I was just on the phone with my ex father in law who wAs judging my sons life 24/7 actions. So I got away with saying goodbye ...... my poor poor son .....

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@PeppiPatty yes family can be the worst re: judgements. My mother constantly judges my daughter and all it does is upset me! I wish she would stop. I have asked her too and she did for awhile but who knows how long that will last.

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Not Long @greenpea

men and women take their unconscious problems out on women ....... 

esp. us little bit more vulnerable 0A76A4B5-6E2E-4E8A-82E4-96CD46E4BA4D.jpeg

 

 

This is a pic of a quilt I’m making for a baby 

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