Looking after ourselves
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05-03-2018 10:26 PM
05-03-2018 10:26 PM
Re: The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'
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06-03-2018 12:07 PM
06-03-2018 12:07 PM
Re: The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'
I think it's a great idea to do a bit of an intro if we want to @Former-Member ☺
I'm a single mum of three primary school aged kids. I had my first, who was an oopsies one, when I was reasonably young (young enough to be considered a "young mum"). We left our village, which was a pretry great one, when we escaped family violence and I live with PTSD, depression and anxiety mostly as a result of it all. We've moved somewhere that's not really where I would like us to be and I've found it hard to get back into being part of a village here for lots of reasons (I miss our people, I find it hard to relate to 'normal' stuff, I worry that it will all come crashing down again if I do get back into it, I feel tired, sad, angry, scared and it can make interacting tricky etc.). Parenting for me can be really energising but equally exhausting. Our house can definitely be a bit of a circus sometimes!
So that's me/us ☺
Hope your PD meeting/work day is going ok @Former-Member and that your day today is a bit better @CrazyTiger. Are you and your little one up to anything in particular today?
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06-03-2018 01:46 PM
06-03-2018 01:46 PM
Re: The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'
Thanks for your message. Today hasn't been any better. I am sooooo over this crap. I don't even know where to begin anymore.
My monkey is 3.
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06-03-2018 02:46 PM
06-03-2018 02:46 PM
Re: The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'
I'm heading out to pick up mine from school in moment (just in case you reply and I don't get back to you for a while - there may be others around to chat with if it helps though).
Thinking of you.
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06-03-2018 07:10 PM
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06-03-2018 07:15 PM
06-03-2018 07:15 PM
Re: The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'
Hi @CheerBear Hope your chiddlers have come home ok tonight with some happy stories to share from school.
My lil mister came home with an award for the best listening (after i picked myself up off the floor i gave him a hug and a high five!) ... yay for positives.
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06-03-2018 08:01 PM
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07-03-2018 12:57 AM
07-03-2018 12:57 AM
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Hi @CheerBear, thanks for the tag, liking this thread already!
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07-03-2018 08:14 AM
07-03-2018 08:14 AM
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@Former-Member huge go little Mr for yesterday! I love that you picked yourself up off the floor (oh dear!). It's a great feeling to see them working at something and being rewarded for it.
Hi @Former-Member. I think it makes sense too. It can be so hard to remember to look after yourself when you're busy looking after a family (and then extra hard when time is limited). I get how important it is to do, but how doing it can be the last thing we think of/have time for sometimes.
Hi @Snowie ☺ Great to see you here too. Hope you and yours are going ok. Am thinking of you often 💕
We had one of those very dodgy nights last night where most of us ended up in melting down. It was ugly and it hurt (I felt like I was about 5 seconds off walking out - which I wouldn't actually do but I did really feel like doing). One of mine went to bed without saying goodnight after saying some not-so-lovely things, but then left me a little note hidden somewhere with a "night mum, I still love you" written on it. So many feels.
Sometimes I feel like I could really use an extra hand so I can take myself off to time out for a bit of breathing space I think :face_with_rolling_eyes: Today is a new day though and I have my fingers crossed it's a better one (or at least not a worse one than yesterday afternoon/evening).
Hope there's something good in the day for all.
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07-03-2018 02:06 PM
07-03-2018 02:06 PM
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Thanks for understanding. Yeah it is hard. Today i am feeling deflated. Just tired & struggling today to get through the day. Hope you and everyone is having a good day
@Former-Member thinking of you