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Re: writing as a form of therapy

@WriterMelb  they should be receiving entries by email and confirming receipt that way for you.   Hope you can do it that way.  I'm planning to enter a couple of comps in the next little while - one is The Big Issue  and the other my local writers centre.  Whatever happens re comps, just keep writing won't you.  I have a couple of ideas for new pieces, but may just enter my recent ones if new aren't ready in time.

Best wishes to you.

Re: writing as a form of therapy

@eth 
thanks for the response. Competitions are a bit of a pain and fun. I'd rather just write as I feel, so I don't write to their guidelines. I write for myself. It just so happens others enjoy reading it.

 

I suspect you are like me, writing is a compulsion. I have my first novel well on the way. Including plot, character development and detailed family tree completed. I've written the opening few pages, an enjoyable challenge.

 

I can have unexpected dips so I budget my feeling better times carefully.

Its great to know I have a kindred spirit here. 
WriterMelb

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Sorry @WriterMelb  I wrote you a longish reply and it disappeared quickly.  Haven't got time to re-write it just now.  You def have a kindred spirit here.  Take care and stay kind.

Re: writing as a form of therapy

@eth 

I've had written posts unexpectedly disappear. VERY IRRITATING. I try to write them elsewhere except for what I think I'm going to be brief. Then I'm not and it disappears.

 

Hi five, elbow bump, foot bump, NO, now I think we just wave 😊 from a distance. Greetings from a kindred spirit.

WriterMelb

 

 

WriterMelb

Re: writing as a form of therapy

@Mazarita @Faith-and-Hope @eth @Silenus 

 

Hearing your anxiety and about these stirring times. @WriterMelb  Glad you have regular supports still in place.  It makes a difference.  I have mine in place, mostly too, so I do not feel too anxious.  I have had a lot of mixed feelings about applying for competitions, looked up appropriate web sites 10 years ago, to get lists etc, but have mostly helped shortlist in a small local youth competition, though with online entrants from all over.  I am compulsive in some ways about writing, but also reflective as the material I want to write about is molto delicato and triggering for me.  Mostly I have left it as a back burner kind of thing ... does this mean I am wimping out on it all ... not sure ... we all have to do what we have to do ... I have allowed my posting on the forum to become a major form of letting the fingers do the talking. ..

lol

Cheers

Apple

 

Re: writing as a form of therapy

@Appleblossom 
I'm sorry to hear about your struggles to write what your passion is about. Maybe with time this could change? Being involved encouraging youth to write sounds rewarding. Competitions for me are about recognition and gold stars. Bit like being a child again. I've won some small gold stars. It's a bit irritating as I feel my writing just is. Good or bad judgements don't make sense to me.

 

If I win a big shiny gold star, maybe I could  get a good Literary Agent to work hard on my behalf?

 

I could be rich, adored, admired, healthy & well!   (and humble 😂) Fun to dream and have a little hope.
WriterMelb

Re: writing as a form of therapy

@WriterMelbyour avatar by Michael Leunig is wonderful. He is a beautiful artist, unique. I was inspired to go looking at his work again via Google image searching. Here's one I especially like...

 

Leunig-Hymn.jpg

 

I'm finding moments of nature calming at this crazy time in the world. During this time of global quarantine, I'm leaving windows and doors open as much as possible, so that the air outside and the sounds of nature can come in.

 

I share your mixed feelings about competitions in any of the arts. To win awards is an encouragement to keep continuing, and builds confidence. The challenge with them for me is to minimise disappointment when I don't win. Good luck with the one you want to enter with your short story. Hope it goes ahead, and hope you do win! Smiley Happy

 

@eth, I love that you have been getting so back into your writing, and your success with it. The Big Issue is great. I hope it will be able to go online as a way of gathering donations to help people who are homeless, so vulnerable, especially at this time.

 

@Appleblossom, I don't think you are wimping out on writing. What I do creatively is a mix of what I'm inspired to do, what I intend to do and what seems wise in my overall life given the conditions, inner and outer, at the time. Like you, writing on the forum has been a big outlet for writing impulses in me.

 

Hi and well wishes to @Maggie and @Faith-and-Hope, and to anyone reading. 

Heart

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@WriterMelb 

Gotta do what works fo you

Smiley Happy

@Mazarita 

I like your long thoughtful post.

Smiley Happy

Its 4.08 am and I am awake, troubled by an interaction with an allied health professional.

Smiley Frustrated

 

Re: writing as a form of therapy

@Mazarita 

 

I hope things improve with your health professional. Thanks for your kind words. 

 

 

Re: writing as a form of therapy

Good morning @WriterMelb @Appleblossom @Mazarita @Silenus @Faith-and-Hope @Maggie  and anyone else here.

 

@WriterMelb  I suspect the 1st sentence of your post was meant for @Appleblossom 

 

My all time favourite Leunig is :  

Image result for Leunig using my device picture

 

Over the years (I'm 56 and have been writing since a teen) the majority of my scribblings have been when I was manic - it would just pour out of me, sometimes even writing to the rhythm of whatever music I was listening to.  Often angry, rants about social injustices or chaotic ramblings about relationships between people, mostly prose and poems.   Had a few pieces published in anthologies.

Since the start of last year I set myself the challenge of being able to write more when I am stable - which is most of the time the last couple of years - both a blessing (compared to decades of the roller coaster of untreated or improperly medicated bipolar 1 and complex PTSD) and a curse on my creativity that has frustrated me greatly.  I joined the local writers centre and did a couple of writing workshops through them, as well as a short story writing course online through DailyOm.   The most significant one for me was trauma writing with Meera Atkinson (author of Traumata).   Brilliant, scary, and inspiring.

Over those earlier years I would say my writing was mostly for myself, an outlet of overwhelming feelings a lot of the time, very rarely at all fictional.  So that's another part of my challenge to myself - to get better at developing characters and to not write in the first person all the time.  My mother calls what I'm doing now "faction" - still largely autobiographical but twisting that into fiction with embellishment.

I attended several writers' festivals over the years and one year I did a workshop with the Belfast Poets who were visiting.  They loved the piece I wrote and invited me to perform it at their show.  Such a powerful experience doing it - and so I spent a couple of years doing slams and reading at parties with a band behind me.  Loved it, but looking back that, too, was a long period of mania.   When I crashed all the bravery left in a rush.  That was about 15 years ago.

Once a month the writers centre has been having live readings at the art gallery in town and after the first one I went to I was encouraged to get up and give it a go.  It's terrifying and liberating at the same time!  Amazing to have a taste of being appreciated by an audience after so many years.  I can't actually look at them, freeze and get tremors if I do, but if I focus on the page I get through it and feel good for having done it.  The 2 little prizes they've given me are a total bonus, not what I was seeking in doing it, but so good for my confidence and that feeds back into my writing.  I entered 2 comps last year and I get the mixed feelings about it that you all describe.  Anticipation, hope, trepidation about a much bigger audience if successful,  and then the let down when I didn't win a prize or get published.  But I won't let that stop me any more.  But I wouldn't say I'm prolific - if I do a new piece once a month I'm happy.  

I'm now in a writing group organised by the woman I made friends with when learning bridge last year and that's lovely to be part of.  Just 6 of us.  We meet most months and do some writing exercises and then share a piece we've written and critique each other.  And sometimes share our work between meetings.  All in a very non-threatening atmosphere.  She and her husband both hold degrees in literature and have lived all over the world and still connect into writing groups she's started in many places, so it feels like a real honour to have them include me.  And the most amazing feeling is when I read one of my stories to the group and at the end they all just sat back and said "Wow" ... and even then I came away 2nd guessing myself because I'd had no feedback other than that ... I think it's not simply ego that struggles, but a deep lack of self-worth, which I see sharing my work as a big part of the path to healing.

I also have a very close long-distance friend I've known since grade 2 in PNG.  We know each other intimately.  She has won major awards and we exchange works before we set them free in the world.  She is a brilliant critic and often challenges me with tasks.  Another connection I feel honoured to have.

 

So that's my rave - it grew a bit since the one that disappeared the other day @WriterMelb !!

 

I'd love to put more of my work on here, but it might be identifying, especially when it's something I perform or seek publication of.  I will aim at finding/making pieces I can share here.  I have 4 journals and 3 folders and none of my stuff stored chronologically!   Of course all the gatherings I've mentioned will be on hold for the duration, but with technology will continue in a different form.  Just have to get some more tech skills!!! I've been using open office which is free, but I think it's time to get and learn to use Office and Word, like everyone else seems to have.  That will make it easier to share work and enter comps in the right format.

 

Here's hoping that this period of hibernation is an opportunity to hone our craft.

 

Cheers, @eth 

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