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28-10-2014 06:01 PM
28-10-2014 06:01 PM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
A moodometer..what a great tool!
My son invented a mumometer that measured where he thought I was..happy, sad, angry, explosive..was a real eye opener but over time we've taught each other that if you carry on like pork chop..yep, mum will crack it..
Friends whingeing about the price of spending time together..sometimes money can be a real constraint for us depending on our income..and sometimes it's cathartic to whibge about something we do have control over..how we send our money! Reminds me of Monty Python skit "is this the right room for an argument?".
What I really enjoy about being here, is our support of each other..so whilst we may not have many close face to face friends, we have quite a few here!!
And I am convinced of the merits in the quality of friendship, that you s is mutual, equal and definitely takes time..
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29-10-2014 09:59 AM
29-10-2014 09:59 AM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
JT, the reason I said sorry was that over my life experience that is what I have found out but, it may not be the same for all.
Regards.
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29-10-2014 10:21 AM
29-10-2014 10:21 AM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
chemonro, yep, and I ended up being very rude. I did say thank you then walked out. Next time I went by myself and ended up being invited to a table with some great people, whom I did no know, and had one of the best times in years. I have, unfortunately, never seen them again. Just another piece of useless info for all.
Regards and a happy future sooner or later to all.
loopy
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29-10-2014 09:50 PM
29-10-2014 09:50 PM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
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30-10-2014 12:41 PM
30-10-2014 12:41 PM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
I have no friends. I sabotage them . people dont want to hear me, I can tell it's too much for them. My mental illness, depression and anxiety has defined me. I can't take this isolation.
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30-10-2014 02:38 PM
30-10-2014 02:38 PM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
These are the ties that help.
Schultz
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30-10-2014 07:29 PM
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30-10-2014 08:29 PM
30-10-2014 08:29 PM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
Hi @WackyWorld ,
I really agree with @Alessandra1992 - these forums are a great place to start to get to know people. Believe me, you have friends here!!
Reminds me of a quote by Ghandi - "you must BE the change you wish to see in the world"
Keep coming on to these forums and talking to us - we care!
Hobbit.
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30-10-2014 09:00 PM
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03-11-2014 02:53 AM - edited 03-11-2014 10:20 AM
03-11-2014 02:53 AM - edited 03-11-2014 10:20 AM
Re: Living with MI and Making friends
Isn't amazing, one day you are ok then some mongrel pulls the mat from under you, happened over the last couple odf adys, I just sit around and take medication and cry like a baby. I am sorry but I needed to say it to some one and who better than other MI sufferers, I know what I want to do but who wins ??? no one I am sorry to load you all up with my crap.
loopy