Lived Experience Forum

[TAB]

just dropping by. Really not okay. Not sure how its playing out yet. Mother died 2 mths ago ish now. Was ok. Reality just getting to me. Am working now, just feeling really out of sorts , doesn't seem to be a pay off, ok sorry for glummedness. Had to tell someone. Maybe I should adopt next door neighbours cat that I see at 5am in dark while waiting for lift to work looking all freaked out. Heard her bell this morning didn't see

[Kurra]

Hi @TAB I'm really sorry to hear about your Mum's death. Feel for you. It can take a while for reality to set in. Be gentle with yourself.
Hugzzz 🎶💕🎶

[eth]

Condolences @TAB.  Sorry for your loss.  Grief can really take it's toll on us.  We are here to support you.

[TAB]

Hi @Kurra Im not really sure how it works, thought I waa fine except for a few moments.
Well, it was my mother. It brought up all sorts of stuff. Hi @eth thanks am off to work thanks guys. Just feeling out of sorts, is it chicken/egg, cause/effect re her passing or my situation or does it matter? Gotta go have a good day

[Former-Member]

So sorry to hear about your mum @TAB and that things are so hard right now for any cause/reason.

Hope work is ok today, and it's nice to see you again

Take care

[Zoe7]

So sorry for your loss @TAB that is really tough to deal with. 

I am pleased to see you back but so very sorry it it under such difficult circumstances.

Zoe 

[Former-Member]

Hi @Tab, sorry you lost your mum, I know she was the good parent and you wish you weren't so far away. Our parents have always been there, here on the planet, since the day we are born, of cause their dying is hard to believe and hits hard. Hand to task and being kind to yourself is key at the moment, and good company now and then. Set up a candle for her - every time you feel sad - light it in her honour. There's great strength in vulnerability. Go gently 🌿

 Glad you told us, let us know how it goes. Big hug 💜

[TAB]

Hi @Former-Member @Zoe7
Am trying to sort things out. I think I owe a few people apologies re my departure/meltdown especially to mods. I hadn't expected to come back and am just feeling my way

[Zoe7]

Forget it @TAB - it is just so nice to see you back - nothing that has gone before needs to be worried about - no apologies needed at all! Meltdowns etc. are part of life - we get it 

What is important for you now is to know that we are here for you and will support you in any way we can - you are (and always have been) 'part of the familly' and that will never change.

I'll even leave a bowl of milk out for you like the 'good old days' - I really am pleased to see you back...

Zoe

[TAB]

Aw thanx @Zoe7 😀 .. funny, neighbourhood cats have been keeping me company lately while waiting for lift to work at 5am lol .. did wonder why mouse say other day was running instead of walking as per usual ha