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[BPDSurvivor]

Thanks for your care and concern @Jynx . I'm sure it means a lot to @BlueBay  🙏 

Have a good rest a @BlueBay . I resonate with a lot of what you have posted lately... too much noise. Too many ppl.

My brain needs to re-acclimatise to it. 

Hugs,

BPDSurvivor

Hi @Bow 

[Shaz51]

Hugs my @BlueBay ❤❤❤

@Jynx you changed your picture 😀👍

[HenryX]

Hi @BlueBay 

Just arrived home a while ago. Looking through messages and noticed that you have not been feeling well this evening. I think that it is about 9.30 pm where you are and you may already have gone to bed.

I'll be here for 1/2 an hour, till about 7.00 pm my time in the West, about 10.00 pm your time, I think.

Happy to 'talk' with you if you think that it may help.

Cheers, @HenryX 

[Jynx]

@Shaz51  Yep! I like changing things up every now and then 

[HenryX]

Hi @Emelia8 and @Bow 

Thanks to you both for support and acknowledgement. It appears that @BlueBay may be away from screen or possibly gone to bed.

Hope she will be feeling more settled tomorrow.

Best Wishes

@HenryX

[oceangirl]

Hi my sister @BlueBay 

Hope you feel better tomorrow

Thinking of you

[BlueBay]

Hi friends @oceangirl @HenryX @Jynx @Shaz51 @BPDSurvivor @Emelia8 @MDT @Sophia1  and others following - 

thank you all for your support. I'm still in a bit of pain but I'm seeing my GP at 7am tomorrow morning. I now just want the surgery to fix it. 

im a bit anxious snd overwhelmed with all these people out of lockdown and down here. I am staying hime. Don't want to see all these people. 
I totally understand you @BPDSurvivor and @Judi9877  

I think for me being home  now for 3 months in my own home and where it's been quiet - to now go to this weekend being crazy with hundreds of people in our area - I'm overwhelmed. I just want to cocoon myself at home. 
I'm also sad because even though we can now visit fsmily I still can't see my parents because they are only vax with one. There second one is middle December. So long to wait to see them. 
Thanks @HenryX  for staying up offering to chat to me last night. Sorry I went to bed. 
hope everyone is doing ok. 

[Sophia1]

Hello @BlueBay 

You had quite a day yesterday with noisy hairdressers as well.

I find going out into any shop, hairdressing, supermarket, cafe all noisy these days..

I startle easily so I don't like them either..

You have been through quite an ordeal as well lately which adds to everything feeling more overwhelming..

I hope that your pain has settled with your hernia..

You do have the hospital emergency department as a back up plan if pain unbearable..

I also thought ringing the helplines that @Jynx mentioned very helpful..

I once rang a 24 hour health helpline and a registered nurse asked me several questions...

She was very good and I felt comfortable with her.

She reassured me that I did the right thing in ringing  

that was the 1800 022 222

Sophia 💜

[BlueBay]

Thanks @Sophia1  

had a quiet day today 

saw my granddaughter who was very cheeky and tired 

she told me she doesn't love me and doesn't want me as her nonna !!! 😢😢

I told her I was upset and she got angry 

so I left it 

as we were leaving I gave her a hug and she turned around and said "Nonna I love you I'm sorry I said that before. I'll see you next week when I come over. I love you do much"

i told her "I understand I think you're tired and angry" gave her a big kiss snd hug. 
she went to her dads yesterday snd always comes back sngry. 
she's just 4 yet she knows how her emotions affect her. 
laying on couch feeling like I want to be sick 

Cannot wait to see my doctor in the morning 

@oceangirl @HenryX @Shaz51 @Emelia8 @BPDSurvivor @MDT 

[Shaz51]

ohhh big hugs my sister @BlueBay 

being tired really makes a difference to our little ones 

amm soo proud of you of how you still showed her your love xoxo

I remember when my step D1 told me " she did not need another mum"

I said ok but i still love you xx

her mum is not very nice so she thought her was getting 2 mums like that 

hello and hugs @Sophia1 , @oceangirl , @HenryX