@PurpleRed- I'm new here too. I don't have any helpful suggestions, but, hope you are fairing well and that you are finding your way through the maze that our welfare / help system seems to be. I can relate to your story, but, i don't even have the fiance so you got one on Me there. I like my own company to much to share house.
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