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30-08-2016 04:21 PM
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10-09-2016 12:54 PM
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@pip - that is great to hear! It is really important to discover yourself first and have alone time than be with someone for sake of not wanting be alone....if that makes sense. I am really proud of you and what you have done. It is such a tough decision but is the right one for you by sounds of it. It is also great hear you are friends with both bf1 & bf2 😊
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10-09-2016 02:05 PM
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16-09-2016 04:03 PM
16-09-2016 04:03 PM
Re: Not sure what to do
Dearest All,
This is an awesome feedback conversation here:
everyone has their own piece to write all different.
I of course; being 48 years old, almost 49 have a different perspective.
I do agree with what @pip writes: get on with your life ! You are not available for him ! You are grieving the change in this feral situation and death has messed it all up as well.
There was a wonderful lady called @Chris floating around when I first joined that would have some some wonderful suggetions. Her husband and her have some interesting perspectives in their relationship, she goes to an Arafmi monthly group meeting like I would love to do but my living has stopped that at the moment. @Chris had a dealth with her family and she dealt with it in a really ZEN way when faced with some chanllenges.
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16-09-2016 04:17 PM - edited 16-09-2016 04:20 PM
16-09-2016 04:17 PM - edited 16-09-2016 04:20 PM
Re: Not sure what to do
I must say @Anony18
I must erge you to reread @Faith-and-Hope
YOU are the most important person. It is VERY hard to accept this.
I took me many many years to accpet that I was the most important when my son struggled with massive medical issues .
This is going to sound really really weird but when my son got really ill, I needed to find boundries and I struggled with speaking to people. I bought this book: it was a suggestion of a friend and it really helped me not
BBBBBllllllleeeegggghhhhh everywhere.
The book is:
All the Rules: Time-tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
by Ellen Fein (Author), Sherrie Schneider (Author)
I truly belive that you are
Strong
intelligent
Caring
but I feel that maybe this book may give you idea on learning space for yourself. I certainly need them all the time. I still read it. It wasnt about meeting a man for me, it was only not calling calling my loved ones and learning not to go crazy whenever seeing someone. Also, I realised that I was passionately talking about my work or just living and not focusing on what was really happening which was my son.
Hope to speak soon,
PP
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