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[Faith-and-Hope]

Happy Birthday from me too @Ashleigh .....

It is hard because it is clear that you have empathy for your 15 year old self and how frightened you were, how much you were struggling to cope with very adult circumstances, and what a wonderful job you did with coping in the moment.  It is your older self who can look back on this experience and realise that there was probably room to involve your mum in that decision process re the scheduling .... but as @ivana said, your mum is obviously not able to connect with that compassion and is only reactive.

Are you able to work with your siblings towards a reconciliation ?  

Are you able to meet with them and engage their compassion for your situation to start with ?

[Shaz51]

Happy birthday @Ashleigh