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Well, I am realistic, and I think that you have done exceedingly well to avoid SH for months 🙂 @Lee71 

 

I can sit with you, Lee...

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Thanks @NatureLover and thank you for sitting with me. 

 

Was thinking how you said you love the beach, I know we can put photos here, what about a short video is that allowed?

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@Lee71 wrote:

Thanks @NatureLover and thank you for sitting with me. 


 

My pleasure, Lee 🙂

 

I don't know, but I suspect short movies aren't allowed, as I've never seen one on here. Better not post it, I think. I guess there could easily be too many identifying details in a short clip. 

 

Yes, I haven't been to a beach in over 20 years, and I miss it. I could actually go, as Melbourne is by the sea, but my agoraphobia means I don't like to travel more than 10 minutes from home or I start feeling unsafe. I don't mean "unsafe" in terms of suicidal, I mean "unsafe" in terms of anything could happen, I could be prevented from getting home again that day and home is the only place I really feel safe from bad things happening. 

 

@Lee71 

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@NatureLover 

 

I'm the same when I have to leave home too, always paranoid something is going to happen, so tons of anxiety if I have to go out . I don't even really feel safe at home,  cause it's not my home and there are so many people here.

 

That's a shame about the beach, I wonder if we asked if they would allow it. 

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@Lee71 wrote:

@NatureLover 

I don't even really feel safe at home,  cause it's not my home and there are so many people here. 


 

I really feel for you with this, Lee. 😞

 

It's nice you can relate to me about going out, even though it's not at all nice for you and in fact I wouldn't wish it on anyone. 

 

OK, I suspect it isn't permitted, but I guess it wouldn't hurt to ask. Is the clip just of a beach? No people in it? @Lee71 

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@NatureLover  just the beach , the water no people

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OK, let's ask @Lee71 

 

Did you want to ask, or do you want me to?

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@NatureLover  I guess I can. I'm just finding some more pics

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OK,...I didn't want to take away your independence by asking for you... Independence is very important to me, so in case it is for you too, I wanted to let you ask if you prefer. 

 

Thank you for looking for more pics... I went back today to look at the ones you posted yesterday, and they are even better on my computer screen 🙂 @Lee71 

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@NatureLover  I'm still actually trying to find the beach video, but collecting some photos I've taken along the way.

 

I wouldn't have mind if yi u had just asked , I will work up to asking