15-09-2020 07:29 PM
15-09-2020 07:29 PM
I am hoping Mr Darcy will not find it too much @RMG.
15-09-2020 07:41 PM
15-09-2020 07:41 PM
ohhh my @Former-Member , hugs my friend
16-09-2020 09:22 AM
16-09-2020 09:22 AM
Oh @Former-Member and Mr Darcy,
I am so sorry. I have been thinking of you and wondering how Mr Darcy went with his appintment and I am so terribly sad to learn this for you both. I don't really have a lot of words so just letting you know I am here
17-09-2020 08:03 PM
17-09-2020 08:03 PM
21-09-2020 03:21 AM
21-09-2020 03:21 AM
Thinking of you @Former-Member xxx
24-09-2020 09:51 AM
24-09-2020 09:51 AM
Feeling a bit lost at the moment. Mr Darcy is withdrawing, he is finding it difficult to smile. He told the oncologist (in a very illogical way) that he doesn't want any more treatment but she talked him into it. I maintain a "will support any decision you make" perspective. I am wondering if I should have been a bit more assertive, the oncologist would not give a "with vs without treatment" prognosis.
24-09-2020 01:43 PM
24-09-2020 01:43 PM
ohhh @Former-Member hugs my friend
My FIL got to that point and he decided he was having anymore treatment which was hard but my MIL went with his decision
also My mum has ongoing bowel obstructions and she has said that she is not going through another surgery which is hard to watch and see the drs and nurses try other solutions
soo not looking forward to when it happens again
24-09-2020 02:09 PM
24-09-2020 02:09 PM
@Shaz51 I know it is hypothetical but I could not see myself accepting the treatment that is on offer to Mr Darcy. Time will tell whether it affords him quality of life which is my main concern.
24-09-2020 02:18 PM
24-09-2020 02:18 PM
@Former-Member so sorry to read what you are both going through 😢 xxx
24-09-2020 02:23 PM
24-09-2020 02:23 PM
How are you going @RMG ?
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