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02-09-2016 08:01 AM
02-09-2016 08:01 AM
A hard decision to make and no friends
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02-09-2016 08:42 AM
02-09-2016 08:42 AM
Re: A hard decision to make and no friends
Hi @Flower88 .. sorta been there re 'geographicals' ..are you getting treatment for anxiety? Sounds like that may be a factor whether you go back to Melbourne or not.Yes, people change, friends aren't forever unfortunately; they usually end up the way they are meant to though re friendships.
The most important friend in life is in the mirror.You.
If the reason for moving isn't there anymore, perhaps it is time to move. Or find a new reason for being there.
Where do You need to be @Flower88? it's not always easy, but put yourself first. Happiness comes from within. Do you think you are relying on others for your happiness? Not easy when they don't do what you expect them to. Been there. Take it easy. You will work out what you need
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02-09-2016 06:19 PM
02-09-2016 06:19 PM
Re: A hard decision to make and no friends
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02-09-2016 06:29 PM
02-09-2016 06:29 PM
Re: A hard decision to make and no friends
sorta been there @Flower88 ..still had blow ups with father decades after leaving home. I thought I was 'answerable' to them/him most of my adult life re approval, dumb things I've done in past. Things been starting to back off last fews years, theyve just given in in their own way think lol. ..Had been worried about being homeless. in the past. And not that long ago. So long as you have somewhere. Usually helps to have work at other end prior to move. sounds like you know what you're doing. Well past the anxiety. Ask. Listen. Consider, Decide. Act. Or just decide. Or act. can seem to take the 'fear' away re just acting, or having a plan
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02-09-2016 06:33 PM
02-09-2016 06:33 PM
Re: A hard decision to make and no friends
Its a great idea to get your own place. Take a while and do your research...feelings may go and up down while you do it .. but be thorough as it is the sort of decision that effects you for a long time. Be viable ...dont stretch the budget too much ... go for solid and doable rather than ... the ideal ... the ideal can come later when your feet are solid on the ground ..and you have your own patch.