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[Former-Member]

Apologies for the wait, but.... are you planning or do you already have a gf?

[Former-Member]

Like are you planning on dating @MDT 

[MDT]

I was doing that a bit last year and before lockdown. @Former-Member
I got rid of all apps during lockdown. Don't think I'll date for a while though. Just wanna focus on my life I think

Wbu?

[Former-Member]

Will give it a go... @MDT havent really done it for 10+years... we'll see 

[MDT]

All I can really say is that its important to know what you want and what you don't want @Former-Member

[Former-Member]

Just want a partner who wants me back @MDT @hopefully it works, we'll see take it as it comes I guess

[MDT]

I guess that's the first stoe hey @Former-Member
Is to tolerate and understand ourselves before another person can or indeed we ourselves.
I dunno what the answer is mate. I guess in the end we can only put ourselves out there and see. I will eventuate to doing this but in the shirt term I really need to secure work and a place to live in which I feel comfortable coming back to. Not that I feel uncomfortable doing that at the moment but just not in terms of a relationship haha if you catch my drift.
Aside from all of that there's fakery all over the place I think

Its not easy but it's not impossible.

Such is this thing called life.

Whats on your agenda today?

[Former-Member]

You sound like a smart guy @MDT @I know everyone is different and there is a huge stigma to my illness but I hope someone can look past it just need to hone in on how I judge people, which has changed cause my lifestyle has. I'm trying my best to stick to the positive of what I see and read.

but as for the rest of the day, I'll be studying and doing a bit of work, getting that mulah and probs some interviews in the coming days, feedback I received was I'm chatty so gotta watch that. Maybe it's a way of coping with my illness.

anyways have a good day talk soon

[MDT]

Your insightful and self aware @Former-Member
Thats rare these days. I see myself in your qualities and attitude and I do hope you find success.
Take care today matw

[MDT]

Hows it going @Former-Member